Yearly Archives: 2017

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I am Bored and lonely in my marital life

Question As-Salamu `Alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh (May Allah's Peace, Mercy, and Blessings be upon you!) I am a married woman who lives in a remote area away from my family. There are no neighbors or friends around, therefore I feel very bored which affects my life and affects the way I deal with my husband. I always ask my husband to help me establish social relationships with the wives of his colleagues, but unfortunately, he does not care. I do not know what to do, for I have fed up and my husband always goes out with his friends. I have tried to complete my study, but [...]

I am Bored and lonely in my marital life2017-03-10T12:30:21+11:00

My husband prefers his friends to me

Question As-Salamu `Alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh (May Allah's Peace, Mercy, and Blessings be upon you!) I got married 5 years ago, and I have a four-year-old child. I live with my husband abroad for study. My husband and I are of similar age and we have the same interests. I love my husband very much and trust him, for he is a kind-hearted man. But I feel he is not mature because of his behavior with me and his attitude with his friends. For example, he's always out of the house and I only sit with him two hours a day. He is very social. He [...]

My husband prefers his friends to me2017-03-10T12:27:57+11:00

My conditions do not allow me to marry

Question As-Salamu `Alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh (May Allah's Peace, Mercy, and Blessings be upon you!) I just finished my study this year and I'm in love with a girl who is one year younger than I am. I promised her that I would marry her after I finish my military service and start work, which is just a matter of time. I did not tell my family about the matter because I am newly graduated. And I don't know my military status yet and I am afraid it will be said to me, 'you are still too young.' She called me recently because her father wants to give her [...]

My conditions do not allow me to marry2017-03-10T12:23:54+11:00

What do you think of marrying a widow?

Question As-Salamu `Alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh (May Allah's Peace, Mercy, and Blessings be upon you!) I am a young man who has not married yet, and I intended to marry a previously married woman due to her beautiful qualities and manners, because she is the widow of my best friend (may Allah bestow mercy on his soul), a desire from me to participate in rearing those orphans, and to reduce the stress rests on her shoulders. What do you think and what is your advice on this issue? What is you opinion in details on dealing with these orphans? What is your advice regarding the [...]

What do you think of marrying a widow?2017-03-10T12:20:14+11:00

Is obsessive love a psychological disease?

Question As-Salamu `Alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh (May Allah's Peace, Mercy, and Blessings be upon you!) I am 17-years-old girl and my feelings toward others are excessive. I love people very much and when I love them, I get attached to them; and I love some of them obsessively. I think about them all the time, and when I see them, I get nervous and strange things happen to me and I have countless feelings. Is this a psychological disease? Answer My honorable daughter, As-salamu `Alaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh (May Allah's Peace, Mercy, and Blessings be upon you!). Welcome and we ask the Almighty Lord to help [...]

Is obsessive love a psychological disease?2017-03-10T12:16:33+11:00

I feel like a complete failure because I haven’t had any children

Question Peace be upon you! My problem is I've been married for five years and I haven't had any children yet. I always think to myself: Allah did not ordain this for me, so how can I receive  what has not been written for me?! However, I feel great pain in myself. I do not like to think of how old I am or how much time has elapsed in my marriage. I always think and feel afraid that my husband would marry another woman, moreover, I fear getting old without having children. I am always sad and feel that I did not do anything in this life. I [...]

I feel like a complete failure because I haven’t had any children2017-03-10T11:49:35+11:00

I suffer from Satanic Whispers in Wudhu

Question As-salamu `Alaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh (May Allah's Peace, Mercy, and Blessings be upon you!). My problem is: I suffer from OCD in wudhu, where I have to repeat wudhu more than once. Now the matter has spread to the Salah also, where I sometimes repeat Salah. Also, it's spread to issues of daily life to the extent that when I have closed a door, I go back to close it once more until I am sure it is well-closed; sometimes, I check three or four times. Also, I have obsessive suspicions about my wife and suspicions about the people around me. When [...]

I suffer from Satanic Whispers in Wudhu2017-03-10T11:48:37+11:00

A marriage problem

Question As-salamu warahmatullah wabarakatuh (May Allah's Peace, Mercy, and Blessings be upon you!). Dear sheikh, I have been married for seven months but until now I could not be intimate with my wife despite my frequent tries which exceeded three times, but I could not. My wife does not refuse me but responds to me effectively. What is your advice? May Allah reward you the best! Answer All praise be to Allah and peace be upon the Messenger of Allah, upon his family, his Companions, and those who follow him righteously. My advice to you is to treat yourself psychologically and spiritually in the [...]

A marriage problem2017-03-10T11:43:42+11:00

How can I stop sleeping so much?

Question As-salamu `Alaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh (May Allah's Peace, Mercy, and Blessings be upon you!). I suffer from deep sleep to the extent that I do not hear the Adhan of the masjid which is few meters away, could you kindly guide me? Jazaka Allah Khayran. It is important to mention that I noticed when I change my sleeping place outside the house, my sleep becomes light and I wake up fast; could you kindly help me and tell me what should I do to avoid deep sleep? Answer Dear valued brother, peace be upon you. What you suffer is not a disease that [...]

How can I stop sleeping so much?2017-03-10T11:42:42+11:00

I can’t sleep

Question As-salamu `Alaykum warahmatullah (May Allah's Peace and Mercy be upon you)! 5 years ago I had an attack of fear out of nowhere. I couldn't sleep. I was sweating, I had coldness in my limbs, and dryness in my throat. Two years later my sleep had become irregular, so I went to see a psychiatrist who gave me Seroxat and serequel. I took this medication for three months. Then I told the doctor that I felt well and that I was thinking about stopping the medication. She said: stop it, So I did. Now, I am better, but recently I've started to feel frightened [...]

I can’t sleep2017-03-10T11:20:29+11:00
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